Well hello there :),
Today I guess I'm in a good mood, and I remembered that it's been a while since I last wrote on my blog. So I was thinking and I also remembered that this week one of my classmates confessed to me that she felt that her so called bff was leaving her behind. Ohhh, i know what these situations are about. It's probably the worst feeling you can have. If you don't know what I'm talking about I'm talking about feeling like a backup friend.
"What the sh*t is a backup friend?" that's what you're probably thinking about. It's actually quite simple.
A backup friend is a friend who you hang out with when there is no one else for you to hang out with. For example: You're at the mall with your best friend and another friend. Somehow your best friend ignores you because your other friend is there. It's like you're not even there. Later your other friend leaves and since there's only you and you're best friend, you're best friend will turn to you to pass the time. If this has ever happened to you, I'm sorry to say but you're a back up friend.
Now if you're having problems like these, here's what you should do:
You should tell your friend how you feel, and that you don't like being treated as a backup friend then if you get into a fight, she wasn't a good friend anyway :/ cause if she was, she'd understand
IMPORTANT NOTE:
We must not confuse this! Some people, seem like they give more attention to others when you guys are in groups, because maybe they haven't seen each other for a while and they're trying to still keep their relationship "tight" but they have no intention to treat you as a backup friend.
And yeah, That's all i gotta say for today :)
Hope i helped with anything or wtvs xD
'Till next time
@Peace
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